As a mom and an advocate, I can’t stress enough how important it is for parents and teachers to work together when it comes to kids with special needs. I’ve been on both sides of the table, and I’ve seen firsthand how collaboration can make all the difference—not just for academic success, but for a child’s overall confidence and growth. 

Here’s why this partnership matters so much: 

1. It’s About Our Kids’ Success

When parents and teachers work as a team, kids with disabilities have a much better chance of reaching their academic goals. As parents, we know our kids best—how they think, what motivates them, and what might be holding them back. Teachers bring their expertise in education and can use this information to create strategies that actually work. The IEP process is where this magic happens, but it only works if we’re all involved. 

2. Parents Have Valuable Insight

We know our kids inside and out—what sets them off, what calms them down, and how they learn best. That knowledge is gold when it comes to creating an IEP that truly meets their needs. Unfortunately, some parents feel left out of this process, which can be incredibly frustrating. Schools need to recognize that parents aren’t just “helpful”; we’re essential. 

3. Advocates Can Make a Big Difference

Navigating the special education system can feel like learning a whole new language. That’s where educational advocates come in. They’re like a bridge between parents and schools, helping us understand the process, making sure our voices are heard, and keeping the focus on what’s best for our kids. Advocates empower us to feel confident and informed during meetings and beyond. 

4. We’re Equal Partners

Under IDEA (the law that governs special education), parents are supposed to be equal partners with schools in making decisions about our kids’ education. But sometimes it doesn’t feel that way. That’s why it’s so important to speak up, ask questions, and remind schools that our input matters just as much as theirs. 

5. Communication is Everything

Let’s face it: communication between home and school isn’t always smooth. But when parents and teachers are in sync, we can address challenges faster and come up with solutions that actually work. Whether it’s quick updates about progress or brainstorming ways to handle tricky situations, staying connected makes a huge difference. 

6. Stronger Support for Our Kids

When home and school are on the same page, the support system for our kids becomes so much stronger. It’s not just about academics—it’s about helping them grow socially and emotionally too. A united front between parents and teachers creates a safety net that helps our kids thrive in every area of life. 

7. No One Should Feel Left Out

As parents, it can be heartbreaking to feel like our input isn’t valued, especially when we’re talking about our own children. Schools need to do better at making sure we’re included in every step of the process. Collaboration isn’t just nice to have—it’s necessary. 

8. Advocates Help Bridge the Gap

Advocates aren’t just there to back us up in meetings (though they’re great for that too). They can help foster better communication between parents and schools, making sure that what we share about our kids is reflected in their educational plans. They empower us to feel like the experts we are when it comes to our children. 

 

Let’s Work Together for Our Kids 

At the end of the day, collaboration between parents and teachers is about one thing: giving our kids with disabilities the tools and support they need to succeed. It’s not always easy, and it can take time to build trust and understanding, but it’s worth every effort. When we work together—with the help of advocates when needed—we create a more inclusive, supportive environment where our kids can truly shine. 

Remember: You are your child’s best advocate, and your voice matters. Let’s keep speaking up and working as a team, because together, we can do amazing things for our kids.